Miss Me?

Join friends since birth Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver twice a week for their transatlantic catch-ups, discussing everything from the highs and lows of their lives to the biggest cultural moments of the week.Every Monday, Lily and Miquita will throw the show open and invite questions on a theme; celebrity weddings, indie sleaze, orgasms, lies… Then on Thursdays, they’ll pick apart the world around them with unfiltered conversation on everything from intimacy to interiors, from exercise to elections.Email: missme@bbc.co.uk WhatsApp: 08000 304 090 (+44 8000 304 090 from outside the UK)Credits:Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• This is our world now

  Thursday, 25 September 2025

  43 minutes

  Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss the art of relationships, celebrate JADE’s debut album, the joy of Davina and debate the art of hacking.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and drug references.Credits: Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan HaskinsMiss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Listen Bitch! It gets tingly

  Monday, 22 September 2025

  31 minutes

  Jordan Stephens and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about blow***s.Next week, we want to hear your questions about VILLAINS. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, discussions of a sexual nature and adult themes throughout. Credits: Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC...

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• I might have been your dad?

  Thursday, 18 September 2025

  43 minutes

  Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss the impact of astrology, the BTS dramas in getting TV made, and Elon MuskThis episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Listen Bitch! Ask Us Anything!

  Monday, 15 September 2025

  33 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about absolutely anything!Next week, we want to hear your questions about BLOWJOBS. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Perse...

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• Exodus

  Thursday, 11 September 2025

  37 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss the tube strikes, state schools vs private schools, and Richard Osman’s success This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Listen Bitch! Justice Is A Fantasy

  Monday, 8 September 2025

  36 minutes

  Lily Allen and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about justice.Next week, Miquita & Lily are back together and want to hear your questions about ANYTHING. We are doing an ASK US ANYTHING. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissi...

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• Love Is Facetuned

  Thursday, 4 September 2025

  33 minutes

  Lily Allen and Jordan Stephens discuss where they first met, performing on stage and the latest series of Love Is Blind UK.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Listen Bitch! The Sex Special

  Monday, 1 September 2025

  39 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver recap their best conversations about sex. Plus some exclusive content from the Live Shows in March!Next week, Lily will be joined by Jordan Stephens and we want to hear your questions about JUSTICE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and strong sexual references. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Ellie...

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• Simply The Best... Bits

  Thursday, 28 August 2025

  39 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver take a walk down memory lane and listen back to their favourite moments from the past year of Miss Me?This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and strong sexual references. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Summer Break

  Thursday, 21 August 2025

  1 minute

  Lily Allen & Miquita Oliver are taking a summer break

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• Listen Bitch! No Cap

  Monday, 18 August 2025

  29 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about slang.Next week, we want to hear your questions about JUSTICE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica prod...

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• Shut Your Mouth You Sexy Bitch

  Thursday, 14 August 2025

  37 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss the new Bonnie Blue documentary, the heyday of lads mags and whether they can still holiday in Ibiza.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, strong sexual references and discussions about sexual assault. If you have been affected by any of the issues raised, you can find support via the BBC Action Line: https://bbc.co.uk/actionline/ Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner fo...

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• Listen Bitch! It’s a Bonkbuster

  Monday, 11 August 2025

  35 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about books.Next week, we want to hear your questions about SLANG. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and strong sexual references. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is...

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• A Hedda The Times

  Thursday, 7 August 2025

  33 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss Lily’s new play Hedda, Miquita’s trip to the Scottish Highlands, and the state of the rental market.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Bitch, Listen! Weak Become Heroes

  Monday, 4 August 2025

  39 minutes

  Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton answer your questions about clubbing.Next week Lily is back and we want to hear your questions about BOOKS. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, and discussions about alcohol. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dyl...

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• The Greatest Thing You’ll Ever Learn… with Zawe Ashton

  Thursday, 31 July 2025

  40 minutes

  Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton discuss weddings, the Lionesses Euros victory, and 90s music influencing their identities. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Bitch, Listen!

  Monday, 28 July 2025

  46 minutes

  Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton answer your questions about self esteem.Next week, Zawe is back with Miquita and we want to hear your questions about CLUBBING. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haski...

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• Birth Yourself… with Zawe Ashton

  Thursday, 24 July 2025

  47 minutes

  Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton discuss entering their 40s, motherhood and the power of the patriarchy. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Listen Bitch! Toenail and I

  Monday, 21 July 2025

  35 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about personal hygiene.Next week, we want to hear your questions about SELF ESTEEM. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and strong sexual references. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan H...

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• No Games, Just Sports

  Thursday, 17 July 2025

  31 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss Justin Bieber & Swag, Lena Dunham’s new Netflix show and the cult of American Apparel.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Rose Wilcox Executive Producer: Dino Sofos Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Listen Bitch! Natural Mystic

  Monday, 14 July 2025

  33 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about nature.Next week, we want to hear your questions about PERSONAL HYGIENE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Mi...

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• I Disagree with Cracking On

  Thursday, 10 July 2025

  36 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss the Oasis reunion, Love Island lore and whether women can have it all.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, strong sexual references and discussions about sexual abuse and abortions. If you have been affected by any of the issues raised, you can find support via the BBC Action Line: https://bbc.co.uk/actionline/ Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner fo...

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• Listen Bitch! I’m On Me Holidays

  Monday, 7 July 2025

  33 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about holidays.Next week, we want to hear your questions about NATURE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and graphic depictions of violence. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor ...

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• Glastontatious

  Thursday, 3 July 2025

  34 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss Glastonbury festival, Wimbledon and how to blag your way into anything.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and strong drug references. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Listen Bitch! Coitus Interruptus

  Monday, 30 June 2025

  31 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about contraception.Next week, we want to hear your questions about HOLIDAYS. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, strong sexual references and discussions about abortion. If you have been affected by any of the issues raised, you can find support via the BBC Action Line: https://bbc.co.uk/actionline/ Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Pr...

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• Slighty but Mighty

  Thursday, 26 June 2025

  34 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss height filters on dating apps, egg-freezing and the change in abortion laws.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and discussions about abortion. If you have been affected by any of the issues raised, you can find support via the BBC Action Line: https://bbc.co.uk/actionline/Credits:Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Edi...

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• Listen Bitch! Acceptable in the 90s

  Monday, 23 June 2025

  37 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about The 90s.Next week, we want to hear your questions about CONTRACEPTION. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes.Credits:Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me?...

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• A Few Good Men

  Thursday, 19 June 2025

  27 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss Lily’s big night out, Little Simz and revenge songs.This episode contains very strong language, adult themes and strong sexual references.Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioner for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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• Listen Bitch! Festivals

  Monday, 16 June 2025

  31 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver answer your questions about festivals.Next week, we want to hear your questions about The 90s. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: missme@bbc.co.uk.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Jonathan O’Sullivan Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss...

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• Summit Summer

  Thursday, 12 June 2025

  30 minutes

  Lily Allen and Miquita Oliver discuss vitamins, feeling out of touch at festivals, and the celebrity beauty business.This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits: Producer: Flossie Barratt Technical Producer: Will Gibson Smith Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Production Coordinator: Hannah Bennett Executive Producers: Dino Sofos and Ellie Clifford Assistant Commissioner for BBC: Lorraine Okuefuna Commissioning Editor for BBC: Dylan Haskins Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds

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